Audit and optimize for CapableMind development

Brewfile: stripped to essential tools (~600MB freed), removed boost,
cmake, aerc, newsboat, fontforge, starship, and 24 auto-dependencies.
Added caffeine, ollama, fastfetch, ocrmypdf, tea, sshpass, vitetris.
Dropped 1password, iterm2, github-desktop, hazel, swiftbar, oversight.

Shell: fixed all stale references (fzf, zoxide, starship, old paths,
Homebrew node aliases). Updated project paths to ~/_Dev/. Added
CapableMind aliases (cm, bmf, bmf-health, bmf-status, bmf-logs).

Configs: removed iterm2, neofetch, swiftbar configs. Added capablemind
(launchd plists, MCP example, bmf-start script). Updated SSH config
with git.skemantix.com. Added CLAUDE.md to dotfiles.

Scripts: consolidated 3 backup scripts into 1 (backup-all-secrets.sh),
added pass store backup. Added setup-capablemind.sh for full environment
reconstruction. Updated symlinks.sh for new config structure.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

bin/bmf-start.sh

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+#!/usr/bin/env bash
+# BMF (BetterMemories) launch script for launchd
+# Pulls ANTHROPIC_API_KEY from macOS keychain, starts BMF with teacher in API mode.
+
+set -euo pipefail
+
+export HOME="/Users/davidglidden"
+export PATH="/Users/davidglidden/.nvm/versions/node/v22.16.0/bin:/opt/homebrew/bin:/usr/local/bin:/usr/bin:/bin"
+
+# Pull API key from env file
+set -a
+source /Users/davidglidden/.capablemind/env
+set +a
+
+# BMF config
+export BM_PORT="3011"
+export BM_TEACHER_TRANSPORT="api"
+export BMF_MCP_TOKEN="bm_key_REDACTED"
+
+# Ollama needs to be reachable
+export OLLAMA_HOST="${OLLAMA_HOST:-http://127.0.0.1:11434}"
+
+cd /Users/davidglidden/_Dev/BetterMemories.io
+exec node dist/index.js